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Back in 2006, I made a trip to Canberra for an interview at a medical college. I figured to book accommodation after getting there, however once I got there, a major event was happening and every single budget hostels and budget accommodation had no vacancies.

Hailing from the city-state of Singapore, the idea crossed my mind perhaps I could bed down in the terminal – but quickly found Canberra airport, not like the one back home, closes 24 hours. Unsure of what my next move should be and feeling increasingly desperate, I boarded public transport and found myself drifting in the direction of a gaming venue, reasoning I might spend the night in a place that stayed open through the night. This was not ideal in the best shape for nailing an interview the next day, yet, as a student on a tight budget, a pricey hotel was out of reach.

Our society requires more folks like that woman.

Apparently, I appeared lost because a young woman spotted me loitering in the city and inquired whether I needed help. I explained my predicament and without hesitation she said I could sleep on the floor in her student dorm at the Australian National University – an ideal turn of events, given that my my medical school interview would take place the next morning. She even offered some food: a leftover filled rolls she had from her part-time job. I was able to use the bathroom and a secure location and secure to sleep.

Looking back, it’s clear to me the enormous leap of faith she accepted as a young woman inviting a male stranger she had only just encountered sleep on her floor. In those days I was in my male privilege bubble and was oblivious to the potential danger. Today, as a parent, I am astonished she did that – yet incredibly thankful.

I didn’t end up study at that university, and I lost touch with the student afterwards, yet her memory has stayed with me her selfless deed of generosity. My sincere desire is that life has rewarded her act of kindness abundantly. We could all use more people like that woman.